Masochist's corner

PAIN, HAPPINESS!

Be my martyr! - The pleasure of a beating

Cravacher, cingler, gifler, mordre, pincer, frapper, cravacher, fouetter... Entre tortes et délices, voilà ce que je vous infligerai, consentant, menotté, ligoté, impuissant, sur ma croix de Saint-André, mon parquet... à la merci de mes ongles vernis.
As Sacher-Masoch wrote: "If you're going to suffer, you might as well enjoy it!"

Good to know:

  • I welcome masochistic submissives or masochists altogether.
  • Concerned about preserving your private and professional life, I'm careful about the marks I leave. Their duration is negotiated in advance.
  • With me, your masochism has its limits. No intense ballbusting or beatings.
  • No permanent markings (scarification, branding, tattooing).

Reflections on masochism

"Why should I want to hurt? ask many people... some of whom practice crossfit, bodybuilding or combat sports. The physiological answer can be summed up in one word: the endomorphinsthe pleasure hormones that regulate pain. Hence, after a well-executed session (and afterwards), the feeling of being "perched" and, often, the desire to do it all over again.
So, are masochists addicts? Not necessarily. But these games aren't for everyone. Those who like it will approve!

Wrong ideas, correct!

1- A masochist just likes to be hurt.
FALSE. It all depends on the context, the partner, the body part concerned, the session management...

2- One SM object is worth another.
FALSE. From a Wartenberg roulette wheel (stinging) to a thick-striped martinet (heavy) to an English cane (scathing), each instrument creates a particular senstion. Knowing your masochism means identifying what works for you. Ecumenical masochism is an option.

3- From one SM session to the next, physical resistance is the same.
FALSE. It varies according to state of health, fatigue, stress, medication taken, and a "wet finger" variable: psychological state.

4- Physical or psychological masochism, it's all the same.
FALSE. In my opinion, the former is more cheerful than the latter, and mostly within my purview.

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