Rules of our BDSM games

Being a professional Mistress doesn't mean being a mass-produced hostess. The quality of my sessions takes precedence over quantity. Whether you're coming to my Cruel Boudoir for the first or the hundredth time, I'll welcome you with the same enthusiasm and seriousness, according to the same rules.


Your obligations to me

Absolute respect...

  • ... my person, my place, my neighborhood, my instructions. No familiarity, no first names.
  • Your hands are yours to keep! Physical contact is at my initiative or with my explicit authorization.
  • Save my time by measuring the length and frequency of your e-mails. I'd much rather play with you than be glued to my computer.
  • Be punctual. The later you arrive, the shorter our appointment will be.

Hygiene

  • Fresh and clean, that's how I like my visitors! When you arrive, you'll take a shower. I provide towels, washcloth, soap, shampoo if needed, disposable toothbrush.
  • For anal play, please do an enema before coming. I do not offer this service on site.

Transparency

  • Be sincere when we talk. You have the right not to know, to hesitate, to be afraid, to make mistakes. In short, to be human. Not to be a pain in the ass.
  • Tell the truth in your questionnaireespecially about your state of health. Nobody wants drama in the boudoir!

Recreational and anaesthetic

  • Before a session, do not consume alcohol or drugs. Playing BDSM when you're not in control is dangerous.
  • Don't apply anesthetic gel in anticipation of anal sex: pain is an important signal for this kind of practice. Forcing can hurt.

My commitments to you

As a professional Mistress, I think of each session as a bubble outside the world. My watchwords?

Cleanliness and hygiene

  • My place is clean, tidy and tidy before and after your visit.
  • My toys are washed, disinfected and, if necessary, sterilized after each session.
  • I use condoms on my sex toys and disposable gloves.
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Security

  • I play with a safeword - or other procedures if you're gagged.
  • I respect your consent and your limits (see below). Being a Mistress does not mean abusing a submissive!
  • I master the BDSM games I propose. I don't test any new practice in session, you are not my guinea pig.
  • I've been trained in first aid.

Discretion

  • I protect your privacy and anonymity. My questionnaire is end-to-end encrypted.
  • I won't call you unless it's an emergency on the day of our meeting.
  • Do we meet outside? I'll pretend I don't know you.

Reliability

  • I respect your time. Except in cases of force majeure, I do not cancel any sessions.
  • I keep all the commitments of this charter.

OH YES, Mistress!

In sessions, I like and aim for enthusiastic consent. I'd much rather get a big "OH OUIII!" than a lip service. What's the point of inflicting what you hate on yourself? What's in it for you?

Consent is dynamic.
You are as free as I am, at any time, to stop a practice or our session.

My safeword is red.
He doesn't stop the session, but practices it in progress, who can or cannot resume. It's all a question of appreciation, dosage and motivation!
I don't take into account "No", "Please", "Stop!" which can be part of a pleading game. I repeat: only RED is my safeword.

Important ! Before any session with a dominatrix, check her safeword usage. It may differ from mine.

Contact me, especially if you're approaching your limits.
I would never punish you for expressing yourself. That would be absurd and dangerous.

No renegotiation of limits during the session.
Carried away by the game, it's easy to lose perspective and feel guilty afterwards. It's better to leave (a little) frustrated than with regrets... The perfect opportunity to rediscuss limits before the next session!


Cancellation and postponement

Do we have an appointment? Perfect! So I'd like to see you and have reserved my afternoon or evening for you. In fact, our session time is only a small part of the time I actually devote to you: before you come, I'm busy getting everything ready; after our games, I offer you a debriefing; when you leave, I have to clean up (again) and tidy up (again). 

Now imagine.... You're cancelling your visit. That's a shame! I could, for example, have proposed this appointment to another submissive.
For my part, in several years of business, the sessions I've had to postpone can be counted on the fingers of one hand. 

My cancellation policy

  • More than 72 hours before our session rescheduling our appointment within 30 days (I'll propose several dates); the deposit already paid serves as a down-payment for this new session. 
  • 48 to 72 hours before our session you lose your deposit. You'll have to pay a new one to schedule an appointment. 
  • 24 to 48 hours before our session you will pay 50% for the session. To re-schedule, you will need to pay a further deposit. 
  • Less than 24 hours before our session The entire session is due, as it will be impossible for me to schedule another one. We'll discuss the conditions for rescheduling.