Discovering BDSM

Throwing yourself into the deep end

For curious beginners (one-on-one sessions).
Per session, 90 minutes: €150 via video call, €200 at Le Cruel Boudoir. Package options available.


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It's for you if...

  • You're attracted to sexuality outside conventional frameworks. You'd like to discuss it, be reassured, get started consciously, take pleasure and give pleasure.
  • You'd like to play, but don't know where to start. Or your partner expresses the desire... and you wonder.
  • You doubt your limits, your abilities.
  • You want to. You're afraid. To do wrong. To do. To hurt yourself.

Goals?

  • Identify your desires, needs, resistance and know-how.
  • Clarify issues of consent, safety, responsibility and framework.
  • Give you the keys to daring with enthusiasm and confidence.
  • Develop your first games, a BDSM ritual, a D/s dynamic that suits you.

And in practice?

Tell me about your request, and I’ll suggest a format that works for you: a single session or a series of sessions. Not sure? Let’s schedule a session first before committing to a longer-term arrangement.
Once a date has been set, you'll receive a few questions to help you prepare for our first interview.

Throughout the program, I’ll give you exercises to try at your own pace. The next session begins with a debrief: What did you try? How did it go for you? This discussion allows me to tailor my guidance accordingly.

For certain topics, such as consent, I'll send you some educational handouts in PDF format.

Rates

A single session (90 minutes): 150 € online (video call), 200 € at Le Cruel Boudoir, Paris.
A course (3 sessions of 90 minutes each): Starting at €400. You can add sessions or combine video and in-person sessions.
Payment can be made in one or two installments.

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